The Smoking Fetish: Is It The Newest Type of Sexual Stimulation? There are several various aspects and reasons why a person may be excited by the act of smoking. Usually it's by watching the act. Probably the most predominant form of sexual fetish I've researched will be the male watching the female carry out the act of cigarette smoking.
Within the last several years I've noticed a steady improve in a particular kind of sexual stimulation recognized as the
smoking fetish.
The question I posed to myself was of a different nature. What does olfactory stimulation, or the sense of smell, as associated to exhaled cigarette smoke, have to do with sexual excitement?
For thousands of years it has been recognized that the sense of smell can stimulate sexual response in human beings along with other animals.
Pheromones are chemical molecules secreted and fit specifically at olfactory receptor websites at places in the nasal canal. These receptor websites, in turn, send signals to the brain. These signals generally cause a sexual stimulatory response in the opposite sex, and attraction happens.
Millions of dollars are spent producing perfumes, colognes, and other numerous fragrances within the attempt to trigger one human to attract another via the sense of smell. If the opposite sex likes the smell, an attraction can occur. This attraction, in turn, ultimately results in some form of sexual attraction. The long-term objective of the sexual attraction, obviously, is to influence that person into some sexual encounter.
There has been scores of scientific studies researching the effects of pheromones and fragrances, that trigger sexual attraction between humans.
There has been 1 scent, or smell, entirely overlooked by the scientific community.
I don't know if it is so a lot new, or just lately discovered. But there exists a smell that causes extremely strong sexual responses. A minimum of in many people. Maybe many people. This olfactory response, or smell, is simply the smell of exhaled cigarette smoke.
Don't laugh. I'm totally severe.
All you need to do is conduct a search on the web of smoke fetishes, and you'll find millions of web sites related to the topic of smoking and sexual excitement.
I wanted to know why, and why the smell of smoke is so sexually thrilling to many, using the growing political incorrectness related with it.
The Smoking Fetish
There are several different aspects and reasons why a person may be excited by the act of smoking. Generally it is by watching the act.
Probably the most predominant form of sexual fetish I've researched is the male watching the female carry out the act of cigarette smoking.
After researching this subject and becoming a little confused as to why this fetish even exists, I've obtained information that has not only satisfied a lot of my curiosity concerning the subject, but has also given me factors as to why this fetish exists.
The male appears to experience a sexual tension, or high, watching an appealing woman light up and bring the cigarette to her lips to draw the smoke in. The act of drawing, commonly referred to as pumping, or double pumping the smoke is accompanied by hollowing in the cheeks. This is followed by a lengthy, drawn out, exhalation of smoke into the air through pursed lips.
Some of us are more orally fixated than others. It has been scientifically documented that individuals who smoke, moreover females who smoke, have greater oral fixations then individuals who don't smoke. I'm definitely not sexist, as I'm a woman myself. But there does appear to exist within the literature an association in between oral fixation and smoking.
Even though I have gone more than numerous in the visual stimulation affects that smoking has on people, which can be extremely stimulating to somebody, I am not focusing on this topic at this time in this article.
The concentrate of this article is more specifically on the actual olfactory response, or smell, of the exhaled smoke itself. First of all, I must state there is no problem discovering many people who cannot stand the smell of smoke in any form or fashion. With that stated and out of the way, let's press forward.
Why does the smoking fetish exist?
Does the smell of the exhaled smoke play a part within the fetish?
There is definitely a visual sexual attractiveness to the act of smoking. Watching a ladies bring a slim, long, white cigarette to her red lips, make contact with her lips, followed by performing the oral act in the cheek hollowing drawing in, inhaling and exhaling the smoke into the air can certainly cause sexual tension in some males.
But the concentrate of this article, again, is on the actual smell of the exhaled smoke itself.
When a woman exhales smoke into the air, with a sexual connotation, there's some thing sexually stimulating about watching the smoke roll through the air and slowly dissipate. Now let us concentrate on the actual smell of the cloud of exhaled smoke.
For 1 thing, there is definitely a difference in the smell of exhaled smoke as compared to the smell of uninhaled smoke. There are particular types of secondhand smoke. There's smoke that rises off the finish in the cigarette. There is the smoke that is drawn in orally into the oral cavity and if not inhaled into the lungs, but blown out, is heavier and smells different than inhaled smoke. On the other hand, when the smoke is drawn in, and inhaled into the lungs and blown out into the air, it definitely has various properties along with a different smell. The smell is various than any other smell of the cigarette.
I challenge anybody to have someone light a cigarette somewhere, and smell the smoke that comes from 1 finish, and then smell the smoke that is inhaled and blown into the air. They will smell some thing totally various.
The smoke that is been inhaled, followed by a lengthy plume exhalation into the air is a much different smell. I must admit, it is a lighter, more fragrant smell. Even as this exhaled smoke dissipates into the air 1 will notice the various smell. Many individuals describe the smell as not just better than the other smells in the cigarette, but actually a great, pleasant smell. This perception in the smell of this type of smoke isn't only from smokers themselves, but from numerous nonsmokers also.
For instance, I've had many individuals, even nonsmokers, explain to me that they can't stand the smell of smoke within the air. The residual smoke and also the smell of smoke on clothing, furniture, or in the space. However, they have the various perception of freshly exhaled smoke, especially from the opposite sex as maybe when experienced in a public place like a restaurant or bar.
Let me share story with you. 1 man came into my therapy session and explained that he had a smoking fetish. He did not understand he had this fetish till lately. However, he went on to clarify that he's never smoked and he could not stand the smell of smoke. However, he had a girlfriend who smokes. They were in a restaurant one night and she lit up the cigarette and he was slightly offended at this act, but because he had a couple of drinks, he thought he was much more relaxed concerning the entire thing.
While watching his girlfriend's smoking he noticed that he became much more interested in the way she brought the cigarette to her lips, drew the smoke in and exhaled the smoke.
What truly surprised him was before he got as much as use the restroom his girlfriend took a long drag of her cigarette and blew the smoke into an area away from him. As he walked to the restroom he ended up walking correct through the cloud of her exhaled smoke. As he walked via this cloud he could not think he skilled the strongest sexual stimulation and urges he's never felt in his life. Following this, he was extremely curious concerning the entire expertise. So he asked his girlfriend to blow her plume of smoke toward him and eventually correct in his face.
Wanting to experiment with this more, once they arrived house, he asked her if she wouldn't mind if she blew more smoke in his face. As she was smoking and she blew the plume of smoke into the air, the smoke slowly dissipated and produced its method to his nose, he again skilled sexual sensations.
He admitted he was half embarrassed by the entire thing, but still curious. He asked his girlfriend to blow the smoke toward him each time she would exhale. She gladly accommodated him. The man explained that he was excited at not only the smell but the way the smoke slowly produced its method to his face either through plumes rolling via the air or slowly making its way in waves toward him, like a lava lamp. As this exhaled smoke made its method to his nose, again, it stimulated him in a fashion he could not clarify.
Needless to say, that night he went on to have the very best sex that he ever had with his girlfriend. He explained he had the most intense orgasm he had ever skilled.
When I asked him what he thought brought on all of this, he could not explain. The only thing he could clarify was that the smell was more feminine and reflected a peculiar appealing smell. He explained that the smell of her exhaled smoke was somehow a reflection of her own pleasure. He also explained something very fascinating to me. He went on to say that because the smoke was inside her attractive, feminine body, and exhaled it was somehow altered by her femininity and sexually thrilling.
Again there's a particular sexual connotation to this. The man was referring to the smoke becoming inside of her, followed by being exhaled outside of her. This could be compared to the sexual act of being inside the woman, followed by a release and ultimately being outside of her.
I'm not precisely certain how lengthy this smoking fetish has been in existence. I would suspect that it's been around a long time. However, many individuals are embarrassed by it for fear of becoming ridiculed.
With all of the political incorrectness going on about smoking it definitely could be some thing that someone would wish to suppress.
However with all of the smoking fetish web websites, forums, and discussion groups, the smoking fetish can definitely no longer be denied as among the powerful, and more popular fetishes that exist. The web has proved this.
In conclusion, even though I could partially understand why a man could be excited about watching the woman smoke because of the oral visual effects, I wanted to find out if there was actual stimulation from the smell of the exhaled smoke. Which, once more, is definitely different than the smell of smoke not inhaled.
In my opinion there's a distinction.
I have to admit that I appreciate smoking a Virginia Slim sometimes. I, myself, have smoked and attempted it both methods. Taking a drag of the cigarette and blowing the smoke out both ways. Following inhalation and after not becoming inhaled. Both myself, in addition to my husband, agree that there's a distinction. When I drew exactly the same exact amount of smoke in and inhaled, followed by an exhalation of a lengthy plume of creamy smoke into the air, we each agree that the smell is extremely nice. Even sensual. A smell we both like, extremely a lot.
I also must admit that my husband liked the smell although he could not clarify why. By the way, the smell not only was enjoyed by each of us but excited my husband sexually. This in turn, excited me as well. I have also, actually witnessed men in bars walking, or dancing right into the direct path of exhaled smoke blown by an attractive woman. They tried to be discreet. But they ended up staying within the exhaled smoke cloud as long as they could without becoming noticed.
Some of the women noticed this and were amused by it. 1 noticed it and whispered something into her girlfriend's ear and repeated the act two extra occasions so they could both witness it. Her friend then did it herself to watch the man "discreetly" immerse himself in her exhaled smoke cloud. I've also seen other ladies who were uncomfortable after noticing males attempting to smell their clouds, and moved to other areas. Not surprising. Some women are uncomfortable with this fetish, and don't want to know about it. Other people are either amused by it, appreciate it, and happy to accommodate you by blowing smoke either inside your face, or at least, toward you.
Nonetheless not convinced?
On another occasion, my husband and I went to a very exclusive restaurant for a unique evening together. We were dressed for the occasion. My husband wearing a suit and tie, and I was wearing a silky dress, with sheer overlay, and high heels. Very floaty. Being the analyst that I'm, I noticed a couple of things.
1, the majority of the time as I drew on my cigarette and blew out the smoke, I noticed many male eyes watching.
Two, some thing very peculiar indeed. While the waiter was bringing back our drinks, I positioned the cigarette in between my manicured fingernails away from the waiter, as to become polite, and blew my smoke out into the aisle way toward the floor. As my exhaled plume of smoke rolled toward the floor and pooled there, slowly dissipating, the waiter acted as if he did not notice anything. Nevertheless, he actually went out of his method to bend down and position his head right within the midst of my exhaled smoke. He acted as if he was choosing something up off the floor. However, nothing was there. For some cause he knelt and bent down as to bath his face within the cloud of my fresh exhaled smoke.
He then walked away in a nervous-like fashion.
I do not know if it was the smell of my exhaled smoke mixed using the perfume I was wearing or what. But there was certainly something to it. My husband and I both noticed him doing this. I just smiled at my husband and the subsequent time the waiter came back, I treated him to another fresh cloud greater up within the aisle-way for him to appreciate.
Once more, he took the bait. He kept his face in the cloud till it was completely gone. It was as if he was totally absorbing it.
Even now, when my husband and I visit the mall, we each can identify the smell of freshly exhaled smoke within the air. We smell it, and appear about. Certain enough, there is a few ladies sitting on a bench conversing, enjoying a cigarette and cup of coffee. At this point, we can even tell the distinction between exhaled female smoke and male smoke, and whether it is a strong unfiltered cigarette, or among the more feminine cigarettes.
Sounds crazy doesn't it? But it is completely accurate. Actually, as explained, I really studied it more than a three month period and documented my outcomes. Confession, it has been one of my more enjoyable research projects.
I must admit, when studying the leading in the line sexually attractive females out there, you know the ones ahead of their game, there's, and has been, evidence that taking a lengthy drag of a cigarette with red luscious lips, followed by blowing long plumes of creamy smoke into the air certainly functions in getting attention. All you need to do is watch any movie from the 1940's or 1950's to witness this. Perhaps the smell of this exhaled smoke had also played a role in the attraction. Maybe it has gone undocumented until now.
Perhaps I'll incorporate some of my therapy sessions to consist of blowing creamy plumes of smoke in the faces of customers who display sexual inhibitions. Maybe they'll benefit from it. Then once more, perhaps I will.
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